Registering ones marriage necessary as per Shariah. One certainly is not expected to take ones pyjamas to a lab for chemical testing. It is not as simple to explain the orgasm in words. If i dont indulge in these thoughts but it randomly pops into my head and i discharge is my wudu invalid? I wanted to know if you have to do ghusl, if you cant remember whether you had an orgasm when sleeping or not? I am a female, I ask these questions below to in shaa Allah make my ibadaat easy and avoid needless bathing, my non-Muslim family can say that I only spend time in toilet for ghusl and wudu as urinating takes a lot of time for me and preparation for salah therefore too. She should spend more time with her husband. Assalam Alaikum Sister If you had an orgasm, you should make ghusal, Assalamualaikum Sister, do i have to take ghusl if I have wetness that is caused by arousal ? Is giving a discount based on sales target permissible in a business? thank you So how about when Allaah, Who sees everything including whats in our hearts, is Watching. Or the angels who are with you recording everything you do to be questioned on the Day of judgement? Still have to take bath? Sometimes your bladder is full after a nap and you cant really walk or wait to see if something flows out. Umm Salamah was so shy, even with such a brief question, that she covered her face when asking the messenger of Allaah sallallahu alayhee wsalam, who was her husband! 2. I dont know if ive turned myself into this paranoid person. Light sprinkling in ones underwear has only been recommended for those with neurotic misgivings who are constantly afraid of urine exiting their body as it allows them to assume that any moisture felt in their underwear is from the sprinkling and not urine. A womans cervix produces mucus, which lines the vagina and is expelled as discharge. He said, He does not have to do ghusl. Umm Salamah said, O Messenger of Allah, does a woman have to do ghusl if she sees something like that? He said, Yes, women are the twin halves of men. (Tirmidhi, Abu Dawood). Im assuming you didnt read my full post. i was dreaming that i was imagining my future hubby and orgasmed in dream. Whenever I was in need of something, I would slip away for I disliked to face him.. Umm Sulaym (may Allaah be pleased with her), who asked the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) about a woman who sees a dream like a man sees (i.e., an erotic dream). During my discussion with Dr. Lalani, I asked her if a girl could have wet dreams before she has her first menstrual cycle. May Allah reward you, Umm Reem, for clarifying this for the Muslim female population especially the reverts, who have no biological Muslim mothers/sisters to guide them in their immediate family. Brother, I remember having no climax but still saw moisture. If I read quran and duas they stop but if i dont then i get them again, are these still wet dreams? How about if your father and brother were reading this? http://www.muslimahsource.org/motherhood/muslimahs-guide-to-puberty-how-to-talk-to-your-daughter-about-adolescence/. Foremost I wanted to instil in them, empathy and compassion. there is a difference between sexual excitement and orgasm. This answer was collected from MuftiOnline.co.za, where the questions have been answered by Mufti Zakaria Makada (Hafizahullah), who is currently a senior lecturer in the science of Hadith and Fiqh at Madrasah Taleemuddeen, Isipingo Beach, South Africa. ['Ala' al-Din Abidin, al-Hadiyya al-'Ala'iyya] Usually when I am afraid to see any man in my dream or even think of such things awake, I experience a wet discharge, like lubrication, the one that only breaks wudu, so I guess I was having it that moment as well and may be even had during a sleep already. If a woman has never had any sexual expereince..when she expreinces a wet dream how does she know if she has orgasmed or not? Ive experienced an orgasm in my sleep as its explained here but I had no wetness when I fully woke up and checked. normally a wet dream is only consisted of something sexual.but if it is accompanied with chest pressure, scary dreams then, Allah knows best, it is something different 6. Praise be to Allah. 2. If it was deleted, please do not delete this response. I did have had wet dreams but never did i do ghusl as I didnt know about it is my ibadah accepted? what is the ruling regarding amarried woman having thoughts of another man like what ever she dors the man jst pop in her mind but the thoughts are not sexually related. Some days ago I think I had a wet dream but I was not sure because all the wet dream I use to wake up feeling aroused and sometime I remember the dream but this particular one I dreamt only of a male coming into a room with a group of people and then I woke up so the doubt begins again. Most of this is cultural. Maybe an older woman reading this would know? One last thing is that when praying in congregation, the sutrah of the Imam is considered a sutrah for everyone praying behind him, so it is sufficient for the Imam to pray towards a sutrah only. . So both, her narration and the one stating that a woman passing in front of a man cuts off his prayers, both these narrations are authentic, so the scholars take them both into consideration when making the ruling, and they say that if the woman passes in front of him then that cuts off his prayer, but if she is like Aisha was in the bed in front of him, then her presence does not cut off his prayer. Thanks for posting this, very helpful! This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. But I still had discharge in the morning, do I still have to do ghusl? - IslamQA Answered by: Aalimah Nasima Umm Hamza Question: Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah! Do you have any contacts where we could purchace Alim books. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Analytics". Hello. Rather, shyness is a part of faith, however it should not prevent you from asking. Brothers, could you give me some suggestion on preventing wet dreams. Asalamu Alaikum! if a women get wet dream in day time and his vagina get wet but she doesnot find any drops of liquid in her inner or pant. I woke up just as it was happening. Dreams that would render a ritual bath (ghusl) to be obligatory upon waking up while seeing madhi or mani are dreams in which what . Initial vaginal throbbing sensation can be felt by thinking about sex, foreplaying etc. I would say start by educating them about their body parts, and how certain parts of the body are very private and needs to be well guarded and taken care of because we are Muslims and Allah has asked us to do so (and you can read some of the surahs WITH meanings to them etc. Dont you feel ashamed writing something like that when you know men are reading what you write, and possibly curious teenage boys? Can my bad dreams be a warning from allah, or are they just tricks from saitan. This may wake you up from your sleep. 1. But sometimes scenarios are different; could you please be so kind to give me answers to few scenarios? What if they are accompanied with pressure on chest when you cant move and scary dreams. 2. All perfect praise be to Allah, the Lord of the worlds. I take shower like this when i have to get paak.. i do my wadu like washing hands, washing mouth 3 times, nose then face hands till elbow then head clean ears neck then directly go under the shower wash entire body with soap or shower gel and in the end wash feets (is this right?) Right now there is no extra discharge even. Out of these, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. with all the flowing opinions out there, it gets a bit difficult. I think it was about me catching a theif or something. Since this waswasa is coming from the shaytan he wants you to be preoccupied with these thoughts so you dont think about Allah so if you apply reverse psychology by remembering Allah whenever you get the thoughts the shaytan will back off this is very effective! Orgasm is not the state of sexual arousal, but that of pleasure. They need to be open and friendly. I keep ignoring it all and try to live my life normally. thats why people are asking anonymously, some sisters wh have wet dreams could be in distress and too shy to ask anyone thats why we need posts like this educateing sisters so that it doesnt become taboo. If theres no evidence of discharge (wet will be obvious), its not a wet dream. Alhamdulillaah I make wudu before I go to skeep but subhanAllaah Im still having wet dreams vey frequently. My husband is not living with me for short period of time so of course i havent been intimate. MEN: Does this mean that my fast has been broken? i am a teen ager!! Because if there is no wetness when the person wakes up then how does he know that he had an orgasm while he was sleeping? Copyright IslamWeb 2023. Avoid Internet like the plague, and unnecessary interaction with the opposite gender. discharge after a wet dream is involuntary act. Moreover, since wet dreams happen during sleep, while a person has no control over himself/herself, the Shariah frees a person from any blame. Umm Reem, As-Salaam alaykum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu. Zubair Ali Zai also says something similarly. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Shyness is part of faith. So shyness in religion is part of faith, but when someone says There is no shyness in religion, what he means is that there is no shyness in matters of religion, i.e., in asking about something concerning which one may feel shy. Some Quick tips to reduce frequency of Wet dreams. You said men and women are different but then you posted the fatwa which states that they are not different in this issue and both of them do not have to perform ghusl unless they see liquid, `Aishah said: Someone asked the Prophet (peace be upon him) about a man seeing himself discharging in his dream though he does not feel wet., Umm Salamah asked: What about women, O Messenger of Allah?. Please help! I know there are a lot of questions from my side, but i really want to discuss these, Thank You for the consideration, 1. yes she does Um Reem, Is masturbation haraam? JazakAllah. For men, and women alike wet dreams may or may not be accompanied with a dream and this will require a complete article to explain with medical/psychological references and a response will not do complete justice. does she need to take ghusl or not.. do rply me on my mail also.. if she had an orgasm, she needs to make a ghusal.and Allah knows best, Sister after I prayer fajr I needed to use the rest room but I ignored it because I wanted to sleep with my wudu. yesorgasm necessitate ghusal Is Orgasm different from the initial vaginal throbbing sensation that one feels when one has been aroused? knowing 100% women are reading what you just wrote. If you go to an orthodox Jewish blog, I am sure youll find many discussions there strange as well, as the Torah-based laws are even harder and stricter than Muslims. Aisha (ra) said: The Messenger of Allaah, sallallahu alihi wasalam, was asked about a man who notices some wetness but does not remember having a wet dream. I cannot imagine anyone in their right mind saying yes. It is haram unconditionality Recently, its been happening alot, it never used to happen before and Im 19 so it probably would have happened before if it was to do with puberty but it never did. then again how would you know if she will experience them or not? I wrote in my last post: With regards to your statement there is no haya in issues concerning the deen. First, the Muslim should make their intentions for purification. Question: If she sees extra vaginal discharge but is sure that she didnt have any dream of sexual nature at all? The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: He does not have to bathe. If it is in reference to masturbation, then please be reminded that mastrubation is haramnevertheless a person must make ghusal. Yasir in the post. The last thing to note is that in the case when a person is praying in congregation behind the Imam, then the sutrah of the Imam is sufficient for everyone praying behind him and they all dont have to put a sutrah in front of them and if some one passes in front of them then they should not stop him and he does not cut off their prayer, because they are praying behind the Imam and the sutrah of the Imam is considered a sutrah for those praying behind him, so it is enough for the Imam to pray towards a sutrah only, and if there is a need then people can pass in front of those praying behind the Imam in congregation without cutting off their prayer. I know this was posted almost 10 yrs ago so most likely my question wont be answered but As for the practise of sprinkling water in ones garments to purify them, it should be avoided. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. . 1. Will ghusal be obligatory after this type of discharge? My question is I my dream a man is pinch me near my privat part but I didnt feel any thing i am in condition that i feel my self as a patient. And that I dont think this is the pleasure people who had orgasm talked about so I ignored such feelings. I follow the Hanafi School of Thought, where we are told that if we see any discharge after waking up in the morning, we should perform Ghusl (ritual shower). Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): and [Allah] has not placed upon you in the religion any difficulty. The place for the intention is in the heart, meaning you know that you are standing to pray maghrib 3 rakahs, so you dont have to say it out loud. I have no idea on how to contact you, so I am posting this comment hoping that you can help me. If not send them an email. A simple Google search will lead you to many websites. Yesterday night, I had thought about having a wet dream before I slept but when I woke up I think that I had a wet dream but I cant remember the dream but I know I felt somehow and I feel my leg was weak but I was having doubt if it was due to wet dream or because I was startled by the alarm that woke me up. We shouldnt really make more out of this than what it is, and there is a difference between wet dreams which happen involuntarily and between things which people choose to do themselves. Explain the wet dream in exact words as if you were to explain it to your daughter. Kind of embarrassing to post a reply here, By the way, both men and women should use a sutrah when praying, and the same applies to women too, that if a woman passes in front of another woman who is praying, then she cuts off her prayer as well, and this is not limited to men., Just wondering if theres a hadith to this? There is no shame in matters of religion and we take them all seriously. What can I do? Similarly, once a sister saw her young daughter (around 7) using the shower massager on her private areas while taking a shower. Firstly: If a man feels the semen moving when he feels desire without intercourse, and he holds his penis and nothing comes out, then he does not have to do ghusl according to the majority of scholars; this is unlike the well known view of Ahmad, may Allaah have mercy on him. Sister, I was referring to this hadith: I want to ask you something regarding similar subject. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Other. Is this true? Why is masturbation not allowed? Please see the questions answered by Sh. This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. How else would her child resemble her? (Bukhari). These cookies ensure basic functionalities and security features of the website, anonymously. Each woman has a general pattern of how her monthly cycle proceeds. Apparently modesty requires writing women out of history. So how about when Allaah is Watching your every move, And the angels who are with you recording everything youve written to be questioned about on the Day of Judgement? 4.1 And what if she sees her underwear wet, can she consider it as discharge that breaks wudu only or not? Before we proceed, I want to mention that I was amazed at the level of shyness sisters feel in asking questions. I dont see what they can do about it. Hence, I decided to contribute this piece, along with the help of a professional Gynecologist, Dr. Fatimah Lalani and Shaykh Yasir Qadhi, so it may help and benefit all the sisters who read this. But sometimes scenarios are different; could you please be so kind to give me answers to few scenarios? As for how to use the bathroom, I use high quality toilet paper, then moist wipes, and then always wash my hands twice, with hot soapy water, for at least thirty seconds. Jazakallahkhair. Answer: She must have yaqin (certainty) or at least a very strong presumption that shes had a wet dream (which includes an orgasm). So according to this hadith, the three things that cut off a persons prayer if they pass in front of him are a woman who has reached the age of puberty, a donkey, or a black dog. Umm Salamah said: Umm Sulaym came to the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu alihi wasalam, and said, O Messenger of Allah, Allah is not too shy to tell us the truth. He studied numerous texts in Islamic Law, Theology, Hadith, and other areas with Shaykh Faraz Rabbani and other teachers, including Shaykh Abdurrahman al-Shaar, Shaykh Ali Hani, and others.

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